I think every thing I am or do fits the title. I'm a big disappoint me to them and I never do what they consider the right thing. Later this month is their anniversary. My mum and sister are going to church and then visiting my dad's grave afterwards before having lunch. Mum wants me to come over on Saturday and stay the night so I can go to church with them. I've declined cos going to church isn't my thing. But that probably means also not visiting his grave either. Not sure if that is my sort of thing either really. But of course I'm sure my doing this is the wrong thing and disrepectful cos I'm not honouring him the way my mum wants me to. Meh.